the fun thing about being clean
is that every time I stumble
I wonder if my kids think
that I’ve had a drink
the other day I did something silly
in front of a store greeter
and I felt like his eyes were burning into me
assessing my sobriety
I pass by my old “sponsor” at her job
and wonder if she still has a superiority complex
the one instilled in her by her false religion
I can stake my life on this:
my key to being free
was not and will never be found
in me hating me
Freedom was found in facing truth and assessing wounds
in gaining knowledge and tools
in others validating my struggle
in others seeing the good of who I still am
and coaching me through the flood
until I could make it back
to dry land
and
Here. I. Stand.
Still feeling some remnants of burning shame
but fierce and proud
of being victorious over this messy life
yet again